Encouraging! November 1, 2000
The vulnerability of hearing loss is being replaced with the
confidence of new discoveries and the promise of exciting
advances in hearing technology. David G. Myers takes us through
his journey to the silent world. He has lived through the panic
of searching for a replacement battery for his hearing aid and
responded to words that were never spoken. Later he realized
what he had misunderstood or laughed at what he thought he had
heard.
Like a comedy of "ears," he recounts the humorous
and sad "errors" in his life due to hearing loss and
takes us through a myriad of experiences with various hearing
aids. Many of these accounts are laugh out loud funny, while
others tell of a world where words are garbled, sentences lack
clarity, and the sound of his own voice sounded strange and
hauntingly distorted.
Many in the silent world compensate with sign language, learn
to read lips, or use computer technology to communicate
effectively. The denial of the hearing impaired also points to
the fact that it can at times be embarrassing. In his
journal-style writings, David draws on his own experiences and
explains the dread he feels when he must ask for a sentence to
be repeated. He tells of the isolation he feels when he must
mimic others laughing around him even though he didn't hear the
punch line, or how he is determined to see his life from
different eyes than his mother saw her own silent life.
You will be amazed at the patience and love his wife shows as
she finally convinces David to seek out an audiologist. Through
a great love for each other, they manage to maintain an
optimistic outlook, show immense patience, and stay emotionally
connected. Together they offer sage advice on how friends and
family can encourage hard of hearing relatives and friends to
seek treatment.
In the first part of this book, I laughed. In the middle, I
felt well informed. The ending left me hopeful. I was pleased to
see a comprehensive resource guide for further study. David is
well known for cutting the facts down to size and for explaining
them in a way that makes you feel enlightened, or at least very
well informed. You will learn how sound travels from the ear to
the brain, see a picture of the hearing mechanism, find out what
16 thousand hair cells are doing inside the cochlea, and finally
wonder where your biology teacher was and why she never taught
you this! (pages 120-128)
"Why not do today's kids a huge favor and make
information about hearing an essential part of their health
education curriculum? Listening to loud music can have
devastating repercussions." --David G. Myers
After reading "The American Paradox: Spiritual Hunger in
an Age of Plenty," also by David Myers, I believe his
writings should be in every library, home and school. He has the
amazing ability to discover what America needs to hear. Through
his writings, he has inspired me in my own life's journey and
always leaves me with a sense of hope for the future. If you
know someone who is dealing with this issue, I could not
recommend this book any more highly. Not only will his words
inspire empathy, you will gain a higher appreciation for your
own "hearing." I loved all the Web site information
and thought it would be perfect for further study.
You will be amazed at how many medical conditions cause
hearing loss and realize how hard it would be if you had to
choose between being deaf or blind. While my little cat was
dozing off next to me and purring contentedly, I closed my eyes,
so I could focus in on a sound David can't hear. I was also
listening to a CD and while my eyes were closed, I still felt
very connected to the world.
Then, I opened my eyes and closed my ears with my fingers. I
closed out the music, I closed out the cat purring, I even
closed out the sound of the TV downstairs. When I focused on how
it would feel not to be able to hear I became more aware of what
it would be like to live in a glass jar with the lid sealed on
tight. The longer I resisted hearing, the more closed in I felt.
Yet, I still could not decide which I would choose if I had to.
Fortunately, with the new advances in science, many will be able
to find great help in the future, and perhaps hearing loss will
be a problem of the past.
"A Quiet World" is a book which will bring
awareness to a growing problem in our society. It will help
anyone become more sensitive to hearing loss issues.
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